Syncing Afton's Ship
Monday, September 3, 2012
Living in Ukraine: Week 1
Sunday, August 26, 2012
Pre-Departure: Starts With Goodbye
It's very weird to think that in a little more than 12 hours I will be on a plane heading to Chicago and then Dusseldorf and then Kiev. I have flown many a time in my life but never out of the country. I'm new to this whole jet-lag concept and I may not like it once I meet it. That's another thing quite a few people have told me: expect that you won't remember the first couple days because you will be so trashed from jet-lag. And then they tell me expect to be an emotion wreck. Watch out Europe: an emotional jet-lagged monster approaches.
The next bed I probably sleep in will be my Ukrainian bed because let's face it, I'm definitely not sleeping tonight. This could end up being a good thing though because I really don't think I want to be awake for the eight hour plane ride across the Atlantic Ocean. Boredom. However, that gives me the opportunity to watch the hours pass by tonight. Even more fun. I have been blessed my whole life to sleep in places where I have felt safe for the most part (the Riv is probably the only exception to that rule). Who knows what they sleep in in Ukraine?? Caves? Coffins? Body bags? I have to keep reminding myself that Ukrainians are people like me, not aliens. They have feelings and do normal human things. I think. ...We'll see about that one.
I'm scared in a way. Instead of looking forward to the first day of the new semester tomorrow, I'm looking forward to traveling thousands of miles by myself to a country who's language I don't even speak. I miss my friends. I miss BYU. I miss my brother, my sister-in-law and the cutest nephew on the face of the earth. I'm scared to leave the safety and familiarity of the United States of America. As I told a friend earlier today, "I'm not scared of the experience but rather the first step off the plane." I'm scared to face the unfamiliar.
I've been told this is what a mission feels like without that whole "weight of people's souls" of my shoulders. Instead I have a couple dozen children expecting to learn English from me. I don't know which one scares me more: People's souls or teaching dozens of sunbeams?
One thing is a comfort though: I will not be alone. I will be teaching with a couple other teachers so chances are someone will understand what I'm going through. The branch president of the international branch for the LDS church has even contacted me to let me know they're excited to see us when we get there. I'm planning to adopt them as my family, just saying.
The most comfort of all though is the knowledge that I have of a loving Savior who understands Afton Jensen to a"T". I have only just learned of the magnitude of love that he has for me and how acutely aware he is of my needs. I know he is there for me and it is through his strength that I'll be alright. I know that through my faith in him, I have nothing to fear. I know he will be there to give me comfort and strength when my lessons don't go right, or I can't ask the store clerk where the yogurt is or I get lost in a train station and everyone looks at me like I'm crazy. Things are bound to go wrong, it's a fact of life. But through the Atonement nothing will be permanently wrong.
I am blessed. I am blessed to be going on this amazing experience. I am blessed with parents and family who support me. I am blessed with amazing friends who have my back. I never thought I'd be here but I'm really glad I am. I'm grateful for this amazing opportunity to grow and learn about myself and others. I know I will not be the same person when I get back.
So peace out USA! I'll see you in four months!
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Cada Dia
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
The World Spins Madly On
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Dove Chocolate Wrappers
I have never been more excited to get chocolate wrappers in my life than I was this past Tuesday. Here's a little peek into the relationship that Spencer and I have: instead of sending each other gooey love notes or stuffed animals or other piddly stuff, we send each other Dove Chocolate wrappers. Not the chocolates, just the wrappers. Laugh all you want; I don't care. I think it's rather funny myself. I don't know what's funnier, though: that he sent them to me or that he ate that many, kept the wrappers and then sent them to me. My roommates think I'm really weird that I got excited to get Dove Chocolate wrappers but who cares? Do any of your friends send you chocolate wrappers? I don't think so.
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Reflection Time!
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Home Sweet California
California. It has been my home for the past 18 and (almost) a half years. As I sat up and looked out the car window, I saw the golden hills, the blue-grey of the delta as the sun rose and the frigid marine layer creeping in only to be caught in the mid day sun. I was leaving my California for a new home. I must admit that this past week has been weird with packing up and what not. Plus I, since Saturday, started sleeping (ha! an alliteration) in the guest room of my house in order to pack up the rest of my stuff. Nothing is more humbling than being a guest in your own house. Then I realized this is how it’s going to be from now on. I’m only going to be coming back to California to visit. I won’t say never, but there is a really good chance that I may never live in California again. There will definitely be things about California that I won’t miss. For example: all the pot. And profanity. Thankfully, BYU has elevated(I was originally going to put “high” instead of elevated but I changed it for reasons you might guess.) standards for its students to live by. Goodbye, pot and profanity. However, I will definitely miss all the people who made California my home. I hung out with some of my friends Tuesday night and it was really hard to say goodbye to them. I didn’t want to say goodbye. Then, when I got back to my house and started thinking about everything, a thought entered my mind, “Am I doing the right thing? Is BYU where I’m really suppose to be?” That was followed up by the thought, “Well it’s too late now. You’re tuition and housing are paid and everything is packed and your roommates are counting on you, dummy.” It was scary to sit there and really wonder if I was really doing the right thing. I said a little prayer in my heart right there saying, “Heavenly Father, I’m scared. Help me please.” Then I pulled out my scriptures and started reading in the 58th Chapter of Alma. Up to this point Heleman was recounting the war that he has fought in the past few years. He lost a lot of men and there were very few of them left. He writes, “Therefore we did pour out our souls in prayer to God that he would strengthen us and deliver us out of the hands of our enemies, yea and also give us strength… Yea and it came to pass that the Lord our God did visit us with assurances that he would deliver us; yea insomuch that he did speak peace to our souls and did grant unto us great faith… And we did take courage with our small force… and we were fixed in our minds with a determined resolution to conquer our enemies.” This was me. I was a small force against a big enemy: doubt. I felt like I was at the door to the rest of the world and it seemed insurmountable. How was little ol’ Afton going to survive life, if even the first semester? But Heleman taught me to have faith that God would deliver me from my enemies. And He will if I trust Him. So as I start this new chapter of my life I’m taking the Nephite approach. I am fixed in my mind with a determined resolution to succeed.